Bridges: Burn Baby Burn (Part 2)

Wednesday, 25th March 2026

In the last post, I blogged about how people have crossed over from one church to another, or stopped attending church altogether, effectively burning the bridge behind them.

Let us look at such drastic behaviour in the light of the Bible.  Were there examples of God's people being told not to turn back?

Well, in the Old Testament, there is the case of God telling Lot's family that He would destroy Sodom and Gomorrah, and for them not to look back.

Unfortunately, Lot's wife did and she became a pillar of salt.

We also see how the Israelites complained and some even yearned to go back to Egypt, and God effectively judged them by them dying in the wilderness without entering the Promised Land.

Aiya, those are Old Covenant examples, I hear you say.

Let's go to the New Testament then.  Has there been cases of "no turning back"?

When Jesus called the 12 disciples to "Follow Me", there was effectively no turning back for them.  They followed Him till the very end.  Yes, Judas did betray Him but never did he "unfollow" Jesus, the way some on Facebook nowadays.  He regretted his action and hung himself.  10 other disciples died for the cause, except for John who was banished to the island of Patmos.

In the Acts of the Apostles and we see Luke recording incidences of the apostles shaking the dust off their feet, which was symbolic of leaving a place decisively and never to return.

Even in the epistles, we read of how Paul, Peter and John encourage us to leave past practices behind and only look forward to what lies ahead.

Fast forward to today, and we even sing songs during altar calls such as, "I have decided to follow Jesus, no turning back, no turning back.  The world behind me, the cross before me, no turning back, no turning back".

So brother Mal, are you condoning the burning of bridges?

Not at all.

In the examples cited above, the people of God in the Old Testament were asked to leave Egypt, Sodom and Gomorrah, which were pictures and shadows symbolising bondages and darkness. In the New Testament, the apostles shook the dust off their feet at Jews who rejected Jesus and turned to the Gentiles who accepted the gospel with gladness.  In the epistles, the writers encouraged new converts to abandon their previous hedonistic lifestyles because they were now new creations in Christ.

The burning of bridges and total severance applied because they were previously in an ungodly place full of darkness and bondages.  God had delivered them to a place of light and freedom.

Contrast this to the churches of today.  Even how law-based or works-based a denominational church may be, all the pastors still fundamentally preach SOLUS CHRISTUS, ie. that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone.

When God looks upon the earth, He sees 3 groups of people: the Church, the Jews and the Gentiles.

He does not see New Creation Church, or Paya Lebar Methodist Church, or XYZ Church, but THE (definite article) Church.

I am reminded of another song that goes like this, "I am the church, you are the church, we are the church together.  All who follow Jesus all around the world, yes we're the church together."

In conclusion, the burning of bridges should only apply to cases when we were previously outside the Body of Christ.  Within the Body of Christ, we should instead preserve harmony, and not cut off our nose to spite our face.  

Jesus Himself said, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another as I have loved you. By this shall all men know that you are my disciples."

When George Ong constantly finds faults with Ps Prince, he is unfortunately being used by the devil to be a bad testimony to the pre-believers out there.  If we as followers of Christ cannot even get along with one another, then why would they want to be Christians?

I myself have been guilty of criticising other pastors, questioning how Trinity Theological College could produce graduates so lacking in revelation knowledge.  In that aspect, I am no better than George Ong, so we are all still a work-in-progress.  Let us keep one another in constant prayer.

Bridges: Burn Baby Burn (Part 1)

Monday, 23rd March 2026

The past month has been filled with many God-appointed kairos moments and circumstances that have caused me to do some serious reflection, and to start a series on the topic of bridges.

Let us start off with the "burning" of bridges, and the various categories of such a drastic action.

(1) Other (Denominational) Churches --> New Creation Church

I know of individuals who have crossed from other / denominational churches over to NewCre and burnt the bridge behind them.  They speak badly of their former church and put the sole blame for their past failures on the lack of New Covenant-based preaching.

(2) Denominational Church --> stop going to church

I also know of individuals who grew up in a Christian environment who totally stopped attending church when they came of age, because the concept of God painted to them was one that was judgemental, vengeful and impossible to please, and they would thus rather not have anything to do with Him.

I reproduce below the sentiments shared by one such person, whose identity I am not at liberty to reveal because she is someone very, very dear to me.  She wrote this on 23 May 2020, and shortly thereafter, her dad suffered a stroke upon reading it :-(

(3) New Creation Church --> Other (Denominational) Churches

This category intrigues me the most. I know of some who spent decades in NewCre, yet decided to made the trip in the opposite direction, effectively burning the bridge behind them.  They accuse Ps Prince of portraying God as a genie, or of raising their hopes too high regarding health/financial breakthroughs, or of easy-believism (ie. no need for "discipleship" or "spiritual formation").

[By the way, I have addressed the topic of Discipleship in this post entitled "Lazy Christians?"
Lazy Christians?]

There is one particular individual called Nick Tan (whom I know personally), whose "testimony" was showcased on 29 Nov 2023 by Gospel Light, his current church, which I reproduce in full below:






These individuals unfortunately also become cannon fodder for the likes of George Ong, who has his fair share of rabid followers who just cannot wait to see NewCre fall :-(

Ps Prince made a very interesting observation before: Jealousy and envy usually happens between people sharing the same profession.  A pastor is usually jealous of another pastor, an accountant of another accountant, a real estate agent of another real estate agent, and so on. Rarely is a pastor jealous of an accountant, or an accountant of a real estate agent, or a real estate agent of a pastor.

This explains the animosity that Kong Hee, Lawrence Khong, Ho Chee Sin, George Ong and even KSM (the current PIC of my ex-church PLMC) have towards Ps Prince.

I would add that it happens also between people sharing the same life circumstances too.  A sibling is envious of another sibling who is favoured by their parents,  a mother of another whose kids are doing well in school, a husband of another man whose wife is submissive and demure, etc etc.

Sorry for digressing. Let's get back to the topic of bridge-burning.  

(4) New Creation Church --> stop going to church

This category is the most heartbreaking of all.  I can understand why people may leave churches that depict God as angry and demanding.  But if God is portrayed as loving and forgiving, then it not so much the message that turn people away, but the message-bearers.

There is one such individual that not only stopped attending NewCre, but even went so far as to declare war against it on 12 March 2023.  Thankfully, he took down his Instagram post about an hour later after being counselled. Unfortunately, he currently lives quite the secular lifestyle, which includes smoking, drinking and swearing :-(

Another stopped because she was previously in a very exclusive care group for several years, and then when it had grown too big and had to multiply, the CG leader allowed the exclusive member to choose who could stay and who had to leave.  The person in question was one of those who had to leave the CG, and her bitterness caused her to leave church altogether. 

Anyway, what does the Bible have to say about the act of burning bridges?  Were there cases of God asking His people to cut ties?  We will look at some examples in the next post, so stay tuned!

Thir.st Resources to Bridge the Divide

Wednesday, 18th March 2026

Yesterday, I mentioned about the "Rhema images" that Dn Doug shared with me.  They were from the Instagram account of Thir.st, which frankly speaking, I had never heard of up till then.

The first thing that I noticed when I looked at the post was that my daughter (she uses the Insta handle hollecar (which is her name Rachel Loh spelt backwards) liked it.  Of course Dn Doug (Insta handle dougtheman75) liked it too, and subsequently, my wife (Insta handle socks109) read it and liked it too. 

I did a Google AI search on Thir.st and this was the result:

Thir.st (thir.st) is a faith-based digital platform in Singapore that functions as a space for the next generation of believers and seekers to have honest conversations about faith, life, and relationships.
The name "Thir.st" is a metaphorical reference to spiritual longing or hunger for God. It draws from biblical imagery where "thirsting" represents a deep desire for truth, purpose, and the "living water" found in Jesus Christ.
Key Facts About Thir.st
  • Mission: Its goal is to use storytelling and digital media to inspire hope, strengthen community, and share the Gospel.
  • Organization: It is the flagship platform of the Thirst Collective, a non-profit media group that also includes other titles like Salt&Light (faith-at-work) and Stories of Hope (evangelistic testimonies).
  • Origin: It was founded by Ps Edric Sng and launched in December 2016.
  • Content: The platform publishes articles, videos, and devotionals covering topics such as mental health, dating, career, and Christian theology.
What I have noticed of late is that because of the way many other churches in Singapore have labelled our church as "preaching hypergrace" or "lacking discipleship", we have responded in kind by labelling them "law-based" or "having an old-covenant mentality", and this back and forth only results in deepening and widening the divide :-(

When I spoke with Ps Ed sometime in July 2025 (shortly after my dad went to heaven and I was contemplating returning to my ex-church - see At The Crossroads, Part 3 ), he said that he himself was from a denominational church and had to watch himself not to become judgemental and self-righteous whenever he read comments made by his ex-church members in the various Whatsapp chat groups he was in.

Jesus Himself said that those who are not against Him are for Him (see Mk 9:40), so we need to be careful not to place negative labels on fellow believers.

It is ironic that when I was a CG leader and Treasurer in my ex-church, I would quote that very same verse to defend Ps Prince's teachings, and now the re(verse!) holds true from the other side.

Thank God that Thir.st is a non-denominational platform that seeks to bridge that divide, such that members of both NewCre and Methodist churches can find common ground.  In fact, I checked to see who follows their account and there are very familiar names from both...

NewCre: Annette Lee, Ps Lawrence, Dn Lip Kee, Dn Doug, Ps Joe Purcell
Methodist Churches: Ps Glad, Morgan Zhou, my daughter, Melissa Mak, Dennis Yue

Anyway, I did a search on "cell groups" at Thir.st and 2 articles popped up that address the very situation I am currently in.


These 2 articles really blessed me because 
  • the first directly addresses the PLQ holy huddle that currently exist in my CG; and
  • the second debunks the myth that I had joined the perfect CG
May these 2 articles bless you the same way they have blessed me, if you find yourself in a similar situation.  There are also lots of other testimonies found therein, so do check them out if the Lord so prompts you to :-)

Chats with Brother Loh

Tuesday, 17th March 2026

Back in the 1990s, Dr Aw Swee Eng wrote a book called "Chats with Uncle Loh" and gave several copies to my dad.

While de-cluttering the Study, I came across those copies, and have kept one for posterity.

Fast forward to the 21st century and God has brought a dear brother into my life, Douglas Loh.  I got to know him way before he was appointed a Deacon, and we meet up regularly for lunch to fellowship and chat.  

He introduced me to King of Fried Rice, Uptown Nasi Lemak and Sando, amongst others. 

In return, I have introduced him to Prof Brawn Cafe, Boh Geh Uncle Canteen and Little Pond.

Prof Brawn Cafe, May 2018
Sando, Sep 2024
Little Pond, Oct 2025

Because of the great kingdom friendship that we have, God has frequently used Dn Doug as a channel to give me His rhema word.  For example, I only knew about the existence and use of washpots because Dn Doug shared that with me back in 2018 when I encountered friction with my then-ministry team leader CY.  You can read that blog entry here

Thank God for Washpots

Well, God again used Dn Doug to bring me His rhema word (or rather a series of 9 Instagram images) when I shared about what happened recently in my "perfect" CG.  I reproduce these 9 images below to encourage everyone to be part of a CG, not be discouraged by setbacks, but continue to look to Jesus as the author and finisher of our faith.









I truly am blessed by my chats with Brother Loh.  May God continue to bless His ministry as a Deacon overseeing the Sunday Experience at the Star!

Holy Huddles

Friday, 13th March 2026

I was chatting with a dear brother of mine the other day about how my previous CGL had what she herself had termed as her "coveted" members. In Aug 2022, when Covid restrictions were lifted and our church encouraged CGs to meet in person again, she told me that she would still keep having Zoom-based meetings on alternate fortnights as she did not want to lose them.

She also had her "favourites", and the irony is that her facilitator (the one who whistleblew to MAS and the police on her) and I were among the numbered few.  During one conversation with her, she even asked whether she could nominate me to be a future CGL, but I politely declined, telling her I was very contented to just be an ordinary CG member.  I  did not want any added responsibilities, and was afraid of being stumbled by any politicking further up the organisation, like what happened in the political party I was previously a member of.

My current CG is led by a wonderful godly couple, but I have also observed what some would consider the formation of a "holy huddle" of those who attend services at PLQ.  

My wife and I currently attend the 1st service at Star Vista (what we affectionately call HQ).  When we first changed church in 2018, we attended services at Golden Village, Great World City.  Then Covid hit so we pivoted to watching online.  When her dad went home to be with the Lord in August 2022, she told me that she would like to make it a point to visit her mom weekly.  Her mom stayed in Bukit Batok so we would typically visit her after attending service.  

When we first got married, we would visit her parents weekly.  After the kids came along, and as time went by, our visits became less frequent.  It was reduced to every other week, and then every month, and then to just once every quarter. 

Her mom moved to Siglap about 2 months ago, so I asked my wife whether we could join the "PLQ holy huddle", but she declined, so we remain HQ attendees.

In my last post, I blogged about an unpleasant encounter with this particular fellow CG member, which I refer to as VX.  Two fellow members have reached out to me and I really appreciate their good intentions.  But when I ask these same members whether they have similarly reached out to VX, for some reason, they avoid answering me directly and/or change the topic.

I have reproduced parts of our conversation, but have redacted their names to protect their privacy.

In Conversation with PLQ Holy Huddle Member #1
In Conversation with PLQ Holy Huddle Member #2

This is puzzling because VX was the one who provoked me and I retaliated. If anything, he was the perpetuator and I was the victim.  An objective person would see that both of us were at fault (him more so, I would add), but somehow they seem to place the entire blame squarely on me :-(

The only explanation I can think of is that VX is part of the "PLQ holy huddle", and it sadly reminds me of how the ruling party operates.  PSP representatives Leong Mun Wai and Hazel Poa went through many baptisms of fire, whereas their own representatives hardly got a rap on their knuckles for their fumbles.

This "us and them", "inner and outer circle" mentality is very unhealthy, and it troubles me to see it happening inside what I had until now considered to be the perfect CG.  Please do keep us in your prayers, that what is not of God, He will deal with.

Maybe Shaw Organisation will jack up the PLQ rent such that it becomes no longer feasible, or cease operations (just like what happened at Seletar Mall), so that everyone will return back to HQ :-)

Name-Calling and Name-Dropping

Monday, 9th March 2026

Recent and regular readers of my blog will get the impression that I am currently in the perfect CG led by a truly godly couple.

Well, yesterday morning, something happened that totally blindsided me.  A fellow CG member (let's call him VX) openly challenged me on our CG group chat and unfortunately, instead of just ignoring him, the flesh inside me rose up, and we ended up sparring in the chat group for a good hour.  Thankfully, the 8:30am service started, so I put my phone away.

But the damage was already done.  Both CG hosts reached out to me, and I thank God for them.

Up till yesterday morning, VX and me have been civil to each other.  We have had our minor differences before, but what caught me totally by surprise was him opposing me not privately but openly and publicly in the chat group.  There is some underlying hostility on his part, and unfortunately, I took the bait.

He accused me of name-calling and name-dropping.  What is ironic is that he name-calls too, but that's not the main point of this post.

Nonetheless, let's start with name-calling.  

I frequently joke with my golfing kakis that ever since I retired from the corporate world, my face has gotten smaller and whiter, and that I eat soft rice. I frequently refer to myself as "吃软饭的小白脸", which literally means "the small white face that eats soft rice".

In Chinese, a 小白脸 is someone who relies upon a woman to support him, while 吃软饭 is the act of relying on a woman to support him.  Combining both gives added emphasis.

Most of them will laugh in response, but one particular kaki said, "Not everyone got this kind of kang tau (opening) hor, got people want but also cannot have."

Name-calling?  Guilty as charged, and I even direct it at myself.

Now onto name-dropping.  Is that something that I do?  Come to think of it, it does come across that way.

I do know personally

  • my MP Mr Seah Kian Peng, because he invited me to serve in his MPS
  • a particular Mayor (which I will not name to protect her privacy), as we were in the same CG before she even became an MP. I recall us praying for her when she told us that LHL had approached her.
  • several pastors and senior leaders in various Methodist Churches
  • quite a handful of pastors and deacons in New Creation Church
  • Mr Pang Hoe Sang, the one who built both NewCre and PLMC
  • Mr Gilbert Lee, the audit engagement partner of the Lodge I volunteer with, because he was the same partner-in-charge of the listco I was working in 
  • etc
  • etc

But I got to know them (and they, me) purely because of God's divine arrangement.  I take absolutely zero credit for that.

I recall how some Methodist pastors were wary of offending me because they thought I was on very good terms with BE Rev Dr Wee Boon Hup when he was their TRAC President.  But he and I only met up once for lunch circa 2007, because Philip Ng and I wanted to know what was the Methodist Church's stand on the grace gospel.

So why did the pastors think that?  That was because Catherine Wee (his wife) went around telling people that she was good friends with my wife!!!  Mrs Wee was the name-dropper haha.

Having said all the above, is name-dropping biblical?  What if I told you it is?

We read in Acts 22:25-29 how the apostle Paul was about to be whipped.  

23 As they were shouting and throwing off their cloaks and flinging dust into the air,

24 the commander ordered that Paul be taken into the barracks. He directed that he be flogged and interrogated in order to find out why the people were shouting at him like this. 

25 As they stretched him out to flog him, Paul said to the centurion standing there, “Is it legal for you to flog a Roman citizen who hasn’t even been found guilty?”

26 When the centurion heard this, he went to the commander and reported it. “What are you going to do?” he asked. “This man is a Roman citizen.”

27 The commander went to Paul and asked, “Tell me, are you a Roman citizen?” “Yes, I am,” he answered.

28 Then the commander said, “I had to pay a lot of money for my citizenship.” “But I was born a citizen,” Paul replied.

29 Those who were about to interrogate him withdrew immediately. The commander himself was alarmed when he realized that he had put Paul, a Roman citizen, in chains.

Notice how Paul himself dropped the biggest name back then by telling the commander that he was born a Roman citizen.  That would be the equivalent of telling people he was a White Horse in the Singapore Armed Forces, or that he was the son of the ex-PM of Singapore (oops maybe that is not quite a good example) :P

As I was reflecting upon what happened, I felt the Lord telling me, "Son, extend forgiveness to VX because he is envious of you." 

"What Lord, he envious of me?  I am an unemployed accountant whereas he is a renowned professional who runs his own firm."

"He has to work very hard to get connections, whereas I have connections bestowed upon you. That is why he called you a name-dropper".

After reflecting upon this, I repented and said. "Sigh, you are right Lord, I forgive him and I will likewise look for the opportunity to seek his forgiveness."

So dear readers, please do keep VX and me in prayer.  I have had enough of washpots in my ministry and I really do not need one in my CG.

God is S(o) GOOD

Friday, 6th March 2026

Yesterday, I attended a full-day session that is meant for board members of charities and non-profit organisations, called SGOOD 2.0, which is a collaboration between the Singapore Institute of Directors ("SID") and NCSS ("National Council of Social Services").

Per the Singapore Institute of Directors' website, 

https://www.sid.org.sg/SGOOD

SGD 2.0 - Governance for Outstanding Organisation Directors (SGOOD) 2.0 Programme

Effective governance of nonprofit organisations starts with informed and empowered board leaders. Serving on a nonprofit board requires not only a strong foundation in governance and strategic oversight but also the ability to drive meaningful impact while balancing diverse stakeholder interests.

The SGOOD (Governance for Outstanding Organisation Directors) 2.0 Programme provides nonprofit organisation board members with the necessary governance tools to lead with confidence. Developed in collaboration with the National Council of Social Service, it is part of GovernWell: Excellence in Charity Leadership, an initiative launched by the Commissioner of Charities and Charity Council.

How did this begin? When I changed CG in October 2022, one of my fellow CG mates Wayne Soo, who is also a Chartered Accountant, noted that I was kinda retired and had the capacity to do volunteer work. So he roped me into serving at a nursing home meant for people with dementia called Apex Harmony Lodge as one of her Management Committee member (the equivalent of its Board).  My term began in April 2023 and after 2 years, my role is now as her Assistant Treasurer, with Wayne as the Treasurer.

The Lodge is deliberately built to look like a chalet resort, so that long-term residents (yes, we call them "residents" rather than "patients") feel like they are on a staycation, rather than in a nursing home of sorts. In fact, some of them feel so comfortable that they do not want to go back to their own homes.

The Lodge even employs 2 in-house musicians to entertain the residents daily.  At their CNY gathering last month, they were so kind to invite the ONNB (oi nang noob bassist) to jam along with them.  Here is a picture of us, with me holding onto my bass ukelele.

Back to the SGOOD session and the title of today's post.  When I agreed with Wayne to come on board, I had no agenda of any sort.  Not only is this an unpaid volunteer role, we even have to pay the Lodge $12 a year in membership fees!  The constitution requires one to first be a member of the Lodge before he can become a management committee member.

But God is so good and this is why.

At my table yesterday were sat other like-minded individuals who want to give back to society, while still holding onto daytime jobs in the corporate world.  One is an accountant that heads up risk and compliance in a commodities trading conglomerate.  Another is a lawyer working as the general counsel to a family office.  Yet another is a lawyer working for a venture capitalist fund focused on the life-sciences industry.

Those close to me will know that I currently rely very much on passive income (being kinda retired), and is heavily vested in the private credit space.  By the grace of God (and more so because I have been tithing faithfully), I will very soon be receiving a significant inheritance, and leading up to that day, have been asking God how to best steward what He will be bestowing upon me.  The earlier promptings has been to go into private equity, and God confirmed it yesterday by placing those 3 individuals to sit at the same table as me!!!

What do commodities trading, family offices and venture capitalists have in common?  Yup, they all operate with private companies.  Hallelujah!

Yesterday, the 4 of us (2 accountants and 2 lawyers) connected with one another via Linkedin, and I am so looking forward to the much more that God has in store.  Amen?

Thank God for Washpots

Thursday, 5th March 2026

I have been enjoying the Day&Night Experience in the JP Gospel Partner app.

Yesterday, the morning portion of the devotional was based on Ps 60:8, and in particular about God using the nation of Moab as His washpot to refine the nation of Israel.

The modern-day equivalent of a washpot would be the washing machine.

I was first introduced to this ancient word by a dear brother of mine, Dn Douglas Loh, way back in 2018.  Back then, I had just started serving as a volunteer Logistics & Transport driver, and was assigned to Team B, under a leader I would only refer to as CY.

CY was somewhat of a control freak, who frowned upon me sending jokes to the Whatsapp chat group.  On one occasion, he sent me a private message, "Brother, how does this edify the rest?"  I was stunned speechless. He was a father of all control freaks.

I complained to Dn Doug and he told me, "Brother, look at CY is your washpot, being used by God to refine your rough edges and wash you of any dust that may have settled on you.  But hey, similarly God is also using you to be CY's washpot."

Now that was a revelation indeed.  As much as I had to adjust to CY's style, CY also had to adjust to my style.  I tak boleh tahan his controlling ways, he also tak boleh tahan my playful ways.

I sent a message to Dn Doug to thank him yesterday for sowing into my life all those years ago.  Here is an extract of our exchange:

So dearest beloveds, let us thank God for seemingly difficult people and circumstances that come our way, because God is using them to build our character, and moulding us to be more and more Christlike. 

Let's thank God for washpots, Amen?

BBC: Boast and Broadcast about Christ

Wednesday, 4th March 2026

Two days ago, I went up to JB with some "Monday brothers".

It is a term used to describe those who do not need to work on Mondays because they work on Sundays, and typically go to JB on Mondays because traffic is the lightest the day following the weekend. 

One of them is an exemplary team leader in the L&T ministry and yup, his team is thriving under his leadership.  So much so that I personally know of someone who made a special request to transfer into his team :P

[To understand God's principle regarding spiritual leadership, please feel free to read this post]

Rise and Fall: Churches, Ministries and CGs

Anyway, this particular leader likes to do things in the background, his maxim being to "not let the left hand know what the right hand is doing".  This is Biblical and is based on Matt 6:3, viz:

"Let not the left hand know what the right hand is doing" is 

a biblical idiom from Matthew 6:3, instructing that acts of charity and kindness should be done in secret, without seeking recognition or praise. It emphasizes humility, suggesting that giving should be so discreet that even you (symbolized by the left hand) barely acknowledge your own good deeds (right hand)

I respect that in him, so I will not sabo him by mentioning his name nor what he has done quietly for others, lest I jeopardise his effectiveness in the Body of Christ.

I will however offer a clue: he is really Tok Kong: Always Awesome.  He who has ears, let him hear ;-)

I, on the other hand, have been accused even by those close to me of frequently boasting and showing off :-(

In my defence, God has created me very different from that particular brother.

In my younger years, I was not like the other outspoken ACS boys in my cohort.  I was scrawny and pimply, and thus introverted, self-conscious and living very much in the (as well as being a pale) shadow of my illustrious dad.  I recall someone ever commenting that I was always looking on the floor when speaking with people, particular to girls.

BUT GOD (yup that term again haha) had other greater plans for me.  Even today, I might not be totally comfortable speaking in public in front of others, but I am very much at home typing in front of the screen of my laptop.  And blogging is God's perfect gift to people like me!

I am a totally different persona (some would call us "keyboard warriors", and I just love testifying and boasting about God's goodness in my life.

But is this Biblical?  We read in Jn 4 about how that Samaritan woman at the well, after encountering the Lord, left behind her water-pot(!), and went back to her village to become an unashamed evangelist.  Had blogs and the Internet been invented during her time, she would have broadcasted her story not just to her village but to also the whole known world as well.

Which brings me to an incident I want to announce that happened very recently.  Last Thursday (26 Feb), I was seated next to a fellow investor and he told me that he had made some pocket money on Elridge Energy.  He had sold his shares because in his view as a savvy angel investor, it was way overvalued.  

I told him of my plans to sell only at RM1.99.  But after taking into consideration what he said and the fact that I was already sitting on quite a tidy unrealised profit, the very next day, I decided to queue at 9:23:54 am to sell all my shares at RM1.49 for the "fun" of it, not expecting anything to happen.  You can see the screenshot below as to when the "submit time" was.

Then. at 3:47pm, I received the following text message

I was having afternoon tea with another Monday brother of mine (Hei Nick, a shout-out to you!) when I received the text.  I was surprised yet at the same time disappointed because it actually went up further to RM1.51.

Then over the weekend, a black swan event happened that caused the entire stock market to crash on Monday, something not even the smartest analyst would have anticipated. 

It was God and God alone who prompted me to sell before the market crash.  All glory to Him!

And so please allow me to BBC (Boast and Broadcast about Christ) about yet another example of how much Jesus loves ME.  He is not some distant and remote God, but a personal one intimately interested in even the smallest detail in the daily lives of His sons and daughters. Amen?

Back to that outing in JB. Two other brothers had volunteered to pick up the tab.  But in the end, the child whom Jesus loves did ;-)

P.S. Elridge has plunged to 80+ sen because of profit-taking and panic-selling, but its fundamentals remain sound.  May consider going in again to bargain-hunt if so prompted by the Lord.

Whom Jesus Loves

Tuesday, 3rd March 2026 

Yesterday morning, in my enthusiasm to release my blog entry before making my way up to JB, I had made a claim about the word "disciple" not appearing in the epistles without first verifying it.  Had this been shown to be otherwise, I would have lost whatever (little) was left of my credibility haha.

Today, after doing the morning devo, I was prompted by the Holy Spirit to do a Google AI search, and voila!

The word "disciple" (mathetes) is absent from the Epistles because it specifically described followers in Jesus’s earthly ministry (Gospels) or early church formation (Acts). Post-resurrection, the church was established, shifting the focus from "learning/following" to being "in Christ," with new covenant identities like "saints," "brethren," and "believers" taking precedence.
Key reasons for the shift in terminology:
  • A New Reality: The Epistles address a post-Pentecost, "in-Christ" reality where believers are joined to Him, making "student/teacher" language (disciple/rabbi) insufficient.
  • Identity Shift: The focus moved from followers of a teacher to being members of Christ's body. The term "saint" (holy one) or "brother/sister" (adelphoi) better reflects this new, intimate relationship.
  • "Disciple" as Foundational: The term "disciple" was mostly used in the Gospels and Acts to describe those following Jesus or the Apostles, a period when the church was being built on that foundation.
  • Synonymous with Christian: In Acts, "disciple" was used interchangeably with "Christian." As the church grew, "Christian" became the more common, widespread identifier.
While the term is absent, the reality of making followers of Jesus remains in the Epistles through teaching and mentorship.
Having settled my heart about the above, God then brought to mind the phrase "the disciple whom Jesus loved", and how John was so "thick-skinned" to refer it to himself in his own Gospel.  

Yes, readers, I have verified this :-)

The disciple whom Jesus loved is widely identified by tradition and biblical scholars as the Apostle John, one of the twelve disciples and author of the Gospel of John. He is depicted as having a close, personal relationship with Jesus, reclining next to him at the Last Supper and standing at the foot of the cross.
Key details regarding this title:
Context: The phrase appears only in the Gospel of John (13:23, 19:26, 20:2, 21:7, 21:20).

Ps Prince has preached a sermon explaining the above by contrasting Peter and John.  Peter boasted about his love for Jesus, even claiming that, as recorded in Mt 26:33, "If all these others fail you, I will not". John, on the other, boasted about Jesus' love for him.   In other words, Peter proclaimed his love for Jesus, John proclaimed Jesus' love for him.  The former's focus was on himself, the latter's focus was on Jesus.

So what lessons can we draw from the above, keeping in mind that we are now "sons and daughters" rather than "disciples"?

We proclaim that we are a child whom Jesus loves :-)

And fellow NewCreationers, we are so very blessed, because every single word of the lyrics of the following song entitled Whom Jesus Loves (hence the title of today's post) is from the very Holy of Holies.

Note how the lyricist uses the word "child" in place of "disciple".  Did he depart from Scripture? Not at all. He had rightly divided the word because John used that phrase containing that word in his gospel, but not once in his 3 epistles nor in the book of Revelations.

In 3 Jn 1:2, he said "Beloved, I pray you to prosper concerning all things and to be in good health, just as your soul prospers."

And the lyricist used that word "beloved" in the song too!

I'm a child, whom Jesus loves
Embraced by God above
In mountains high and valleys deep
I lean upon, Your love for me

On Calvary, You took my sin
My soul, my life, set free
I am the righteousness of God
In Christ, I live forevermore

Your promises are certain
You love me to the end
You're with me in the fire
But You won't leave me there
Your miracles unfolding
And blessings undeserved
'Cause I am Your beloved
The child whom Jesus loves

Speaking of rightly dividing the word, I have lots and lots to share about that, so stay tuned!

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